Women Crush Wednesday

I haven't been the best at keeping up with #womencrushwednesday but I wanted to start it up again.
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I wanted to shout out to all the moms out there who are doing their best job or maybe they don't think they are doing their best job. I am here to tell you that you are doing your best job! If you are ever worried about anything that has to do with how you are at this mom thing, then you are doing an amazing job!
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We need to do more of supporting each other as moms then the judging and comparing! We are all in this together! Being a mom is tough, it is so important that we help each other out. There are even times when we don't think we need the help and try to do so much on our own. I was that way, I felt like I could handle it all, but let's get real. We all can use some help and support.
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Let me clarify by saying we can all help just checking in on our friends. Call your friend. Text her. Ask simply how her day is going. You can make her day just by asking how she is doing.
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Being a mom is the best job in the whole world, but it is also the toughest job. I wouldn't change a thing about it thought!
#momlife #yourtribe #momof3

Summer Vacation

Well hello, I am so bummed that I have let this blog go. I swear I don't have a lot of time lately. I can't believe my last post was in March!? Wow! So much has happened...

Addison is now a 7th grader and Austen is a 4th grader. Time is flying so fast!

We went to Italy in June for my sister's wedding that was an experience in itself. 

Jay has been traveling a lot for business and I have been keeping up with the kids activities and social calendar! 

I will be going back in the Fall to teach at Little Journey Preschool. I can hardly believe it will be my 5th year teaching. I am thankful to have that job that works around my kid's school schedule. I love being able to work with some of my best friends too! 

I am thankful for my Rodan and Fields business, I have been able to not miss any summer moments while still making money.

Well that is it for now. I promise to get this blog up and going again. 

Life...

I tried to get better about blogging then well....life happened. I actually had to go back and see when my last post was and it was November of 2018!?! What the heck? Well

 Happy Spring! 

There has been so much that has happened since then. Thanksgiving, Christmas, basketball, volleyball tournaments...the list goes on and on. So let's recap on what has been going on.

I can hardly believe there are only a couple months left before the school year is over. Addison is loving middle school. She is loving her classes and teachers. There has definitely been some hard times with learning how to manage school, homework, volleyball and home life. She decided to try Track this year. I am proud of her for trying something new! Volleyball is slowly coming to an end, we will see if she will do the extended season.

Austen finished up basketball and ended up liking it. We had a rough start, but proud of him for sticking it out. Soccer will be started soon and Jay will be coaching again. Austen is excited to have 2 friends he knows on the team this time. He is doing so well in school. We are proud of him. We can hardly believe he will be in 4th grade soon. Time flies so fast.

Jay is loving his job and will be traveling more come April. We are doing pretty good with him being gone during the week. I feel like we are getting used to it. 

He is getting to travel a lot which will help with him getting lots of miles for future vacations for us! :)

As for me, I am keeping busy with #lifeasapreschoolteacher, this year has had many challenges, but things are getting better. My skincare business keeps growing and I am loving my little side gig. If you are interested in trying a free mini facial sample please email me at jenbaedke@gmail.com or you can go get a free skincare consultation on my website at Free Skincare Consult

I promise to do better with updating this site! Thank you for catching up with me!

Happy Sunday!

Woah...this is the second post in less than a week!! Yay! I am so happy! LOL I wanted to share what I have been up to. Jay has now started a new job which is keeping him busy. His schedule will be different so it has been an adjustment, but we are getting there.
I have recently started a Facebook group that will go live this week, it is called Footprints on the heart! <3 I have created it for Moms that have lost a child to have a place for them to be able to share their baby and be around other moms who get it. I remember one of the hardest things for me besides losing Jayden was not knowing anyone who has lost a child before.

I am thankful for the people I have met since losing Jayden. I believe that Jayden has put these people in my life to help me thru my grieving process. I hope to be able to be there for other moms.

If interested in learning more about my group, please comment or contact me. I love helping to #breakthesilence and to share Jayden's story with everyone that I meet.

Where have I been?

Wow! I am so embarrassed! Why has it taken me so long to post. I used to be so good! That is about to change! I don't know if it is me turning 40 this year or just changes in my day to day life, but I have been thinking alot lately about finding that passion. As my kids are getting older, I am finding myself struggling to find that spark to give me something more, something more than a mom.

Please don't get me wrong, being a mom has been the best job in the whole world, I am so thankful for all 3 of my children. I am thankful for a husband that works hard everyday for his family. I am beyond proud of the man he has become. He is constantly challenging himself with new things.

I have been fortunate in having a job working at a preschool. I have met so many amazing people and kids, but I feel like there is so much more that I could be doing. I also have my own skincare business that I am fortunate to have on the side. There is still something missing. I was reminded by a friend today that my passion lies with Jayden, in helping other people by sharing his story. I will drop anything to help another mom who has lost a child. I know how alone that feeling is. I want to be able to help others the way that Hope Mommies helped me.

I am going to make it a priority to update this blog at least once a week!

Thank you for sticking with me and checking in.

Spring...No Break

We are at the end of our Spring Break. Last year the kids were spoiled and we went on the Disney Cruise with my parents. We usually don't go anywhere for Spring Break since we usually go to Florida in June. Well because of last year, my kids were wanting to know what we were doing for Spring Break this year.  I said we will be getting together with some friends, but mainly hanging around the house.

Now to a kid that sounds so boring, but to a mom that sounded heavenly. I loved not having to get up early in the morning before everyone else and get everyone ready. I am the one that makes sure everyone is up on time, dressed, fed and has everything ready for school. It has been nice to sleep in and slowly start our day. We have also been trying to limit the use of technology and I know to some parents that sounds awful especially it being break, but to me it was necessary.  I loved it! I was able to spend more time with my daughter. She is getting older and I know the days of her wanting to hang out with me are limited.

As much as I don't want this week to end, I know I don't have any control over it. I have to get back to work and the kids back to school. The next couple of months will be busy ones and before we know it, it will be Summer! Time is just flying way too fast. We all have to remember to just slow down, stop, and enjoy the little moments.

Hope Mommies Retreat

I am sitting here right now listening to the Hope Mommies Retreat Playlist thru Spotify and letting the music fill my soul. This past weekend I had the pleasure of meeting other Hope Mommies, other women who have lost a baby. It is something that I never wanted nor would have I ever expected to experience. I have not been the same since losing Jayden, nor would I want to be that person I was.
After a weekend like the one I have experienced, I have so many more emotions that are flowing in me. I loved being around other mommies that understand what it feels like to lose a child. It is a place where I don't have to worry about getting weird looks or the sad face because in all honesty anyone that hasn't experienced a pregnancy loss doesn't get it.

I connected with 2 girls there that had also lost boys. I am thankful for them and connecting with them. Pregnancy loss is something that no one should have to experience, but as I have seen after losing Jayden it happens way too often.  I want to be able to help other moms create a place that is safe and they can celebrate their babies. The Hope Mommies Retreat is just once a year, I would love to have some place to go to more often.

I plan on doing more things to get me closer to Jayden and to God. I know that he is near, sometimes it is harder than others to feel him close, I know he is there.

#Iamahopemom